Majlis Tahnik Adam

hehe. br nk post pasal mjlis tahnik ;p Alhamdulillah, majlis tahnik Adam telah di sempurnakan last few weeks ago :D My papa, mama, hubby, mok long, ayah long, Adam and myself pegi. Pagi2 lagi, around 530 am, kami trun g Masjid Darul Anuar a.k.a masjid Tuan Guru Nik Abdul Aziz Nik Mat. blakang masjid tu rumah die. They all performed Subuh prayer berimamkan Tuan Guru.

Once habis solat, ade tazkirah sket den hubby dtg amik Adam dalam kete. Hubby bw naik Adam atas masjid den ngadap Tuan Guru la utk majlis tahnik.

Mula2 Tuan Guru letak tangan die kat kepala Adam. den die bace doa sket. pastu die suapkan Adam ngan air zamzam n kurma nabi. pastu potong jambul Adam shkeet. den Tuan Guru bace doa. finish :D!



Alhamdulillah selesaaii :D Kami pun balik umah.

Smoga Adam menjadi anak yg soleh, penegak syiar Islam bile bsr nnt ye anak :D amiinnnnnn :D

Post delivery complications - Urinary Retention

OK, previous post cite psl delivery kan. Alhamdulillah, for my case, pregncy n delivery were an easy one. (easy in a way xde complication n allergy ye ;p branak pn jap je :)) So ALLAH nak uji la sket by giving me this complication after delivery; in medical they call it Urinary Retention UTI.

Urinary retention can be caused by an obstruction in the urinary tract or by nerve problems that interfere with signals between the brain and the bladder. If the nerves aren’t working properly, the brain may not get the message that the bladder is full. Even if you know that your bladder is full, the bladder muscle that squeezes urine out may not get the signal that it is time to push, or the sphincter muscles may not get the signal that it is time to relax. A weak bladder muscle can also cause retention. [source: http://kidney.niddk.nih.gov/kudiseases/pubs/UrinaryRetention/]

This is common case for vaginal childbirth. My bladder was injured ms nk push Adam klua. Once injured, the bladder forgot on how to pass urine. The moment I had this, I cried and thought I'm paralyzed. Siyesly I'm not be able to pee on my own, AT ALL!

1st few days ble pee, tp sket gle n sgt skt. So sume org ckp this is normal cuz peranakan stil tekan my bladder. After a while dah xskt dh. tp after 5days pun stil skt n mmg buncit blk la prt ni. mcm preggy! siyes! Dat day after discharged, mama panggil tok bidan la utk urut2. stil thought due to peranakan tu. Its soooo painful ms urut sbb urine tgh pnuh n org dk tekan2 pulak kn! lps urut pun skt x hlg lg! makin mjd2 skt!

mlm 2 jugak g Prince Court blk n msk ER. diorg cucuk tube den kluakn my urine. gess brp byk my urine. 3 litres okayy!!! truz kempis prt ni n soooo legaaaaa. So re-admitted 2 am kat Prince Court for a week. Hubby ambk mama n baby kat umah. Baby pn kne stay spital sbb nk bfeed die.

Diorg nak train balik my bladder yg telah tlupe cemane nk pee sdr ni. Seksa jgk la sbb kne pkai catheter ni. Pedisshhh :'( ! imagine la bnde tu psg kat tmpt nk kua urine kot. so ke hulu ke hilir duk bwk tube tu la. dh la evrytime gerak ngiluuu gleee!! nk mndi, nk mkn, nk tdo, nk jln, nk buang air bsr kne bwk beg ni bsm :'( tones of tears dah ms ni.... hubby n mama la yg plg byk bg support. ye la, kite isau xle pee sdr smpai bile2...g opis pun kne bw mende ni...dh la br lps bsalin...skt bsalin xhbs lg dtg plak skt ni..mmg btl2 dugaan la. mmg nuthin much ble wat..juz ble doa smoga ALLAH pmudahkan sgale urusan, positve n beri kekuatan la utk hadapi sume ni. Ms ni jgk byk la google psl post delivery complication ni cuz nk tau org len nye experience n nk motivate myself to be stronger la.

catheter bag a.k.a tube

Da day ms nk discaj pun mmg stil xle pee. so ms tu ckp kt nurse willing nk bljr self characterization (pkai tube sdr). xthn dh duk spital 11 hr! penat (dh xrs cam hotel dh.boring suda)! mmg redha btl la dgn ujian ALLAH ni. tawakkal je la ape nk jd. so bljr la psg tube sdr. agk susah la sbb kne cucuk sdr. gerun gleee!! dh la kne ade org pgg cermin. ye la, kang slh cucuk cemane. tp sdaye upaya pujuk hati ni. Alhamdulillah, jap je bljr nk psg sdr. so kami pun bkemas2 nk blk umah la cuz ptg tu jgk flite to KB. xsbr nk blk umah.

Once blk umah, xsmpai sesaat je trase nk pee. den g toilet tgk2 ble pee sdr w/o pkai tube!! Alhamdulillaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh :D!!! sengihhhhh gleee kat hubby n mama ckp kt diorg dh ble pee.hik2. nikmat btl! cam lps hutang sjuta! hehe. moral of da story, jgn thn kencing n hargailah nikmat yg ALLAH bg. xle nk kencing ni seksaaa tauuu!

gitu la kesah nye. so incase it hapen to u girls yg akn bsalin esok2, jgn risau kalo jd gni... bladder ni sgt la pandai. closely connected ngan our brain. so xbole tension2 (even i do! yela, nurse asyik duk tanye dh ble pee ke blum ms kt spital!), get ur loved ones to support u, n just b patience. give ur bladder time to heal, insyaALLAH ble pee blk :D Oh ye, throut this complication, kne wat kegel exercise. siyesly help ur urethra (salur kencing) to open n close.

Another moral of da story, plssssssssss apreciate ur mom n wife yg tlh brsusah pyh ni yeee :D

To dearest chenta hati yg nun jauh di KL, thanksssss a lot sygggg for being wif me :D!! be my cuddle bear whnvr i cant bear this pain...x penat mlyn honey ms honey dlm labor room n tlg honey, papah g toilet, urut, sume2 la :D

Lahirnye Muhammad Adam Rayyan :D

for da 1st time, i siyesly dunno whr to start ;p terrrlalu byk nk cite nihs. hehe. so we shall have few posts regarding it. before i proceed (await la skema pulak ;p), semestinye Alhamdulillah syukurrrrrrr xterhingga to ALLAH D AL-MIGHTY yg tlh mpmudahkan segala urusan.

my very 1st entry stlh bgelar mama :D (i lyke this status u ;p ) It was indeed a super duper tiring weeks since melahirkan Muhammad Adam Rayyan. sdr xsdr dh 2 weeks umur Adam :D

Lets start with delivery processs yaw :D


========== isi kandungan entry slps ini mempunyai unsur2 yg mgerunkn. skiranya anda x bsdia utk bc, sila tutup laman sesawang ini. ingt, amaran tlh di beri ;p! =================

so i ges those yg bc ni adlh yg ingin tau cemane agknye mak2 kite mlalui saat nk branak dlu kn. bgs! tepuk bahu anda krn anda brani utk bace. (faeeza, kamo dh off byk tu -.-")

ok2, meh nk cite.hehe.i was overdue for 4days. patutnye EDD 15th Jan. So Dr. Seri said, she gonna keep da baby for a week, if baby x klua, she'll induce it. I prayed hard bia baby klua naturally. x nk la pakse2 die. Alhamdulillah, start skt on 20th Jan. Pagi2 ms solat subuh tu dh start skt2. tp xbgtau hubby cuz if i did, sure die glabah x hengat n x mo pi keje. we woke up early dat day.around 4 am cuz hubby nk siapkn keje die. while waiting 4 him, iron la baju hubby sume. lps iron baju, lipat kain, trun naik tangge g jenguk hubby kat bwh den p dpr sume la. contraction agk strong dh ms 2. every 5 mins rs. so ms skt 2, duduk jap, zikir den gosok2 blkg. tp xwat dpn hubby, kalo x sure die notice. den amik2 air smyg, smyg subuh sume, hubby g kije. hubby klua umah je lagi skt rsnye. skt die 2 mmg xde sm cam skt lain. skt pinggang yg lenguh la. lenguh sungguh! den start klua darah. tobat ms kua drh excited gle sbb tau da day haas comeeee!! ding digeding ding ding :D den cpt2 bgtau mama dlm keadaan yg sengih lebar ;p ilang sat skt sbb tau xlm dh nk jmpe baby. i had my daily ctg scan kat Prince Court. once overdue, kne p spital hr2 la. so ms 2 p wat ctg la.ms tgh wat ctg 2, nurse2 dtg nk cek jln. gulp! neves gle okay!! diorg ready pkai glove sume dh. nurse kate suh thn sikit ye. lg la cuak. den die pun start seluk. ouchhh!!! at 1st ok lg, den makin dlm die seluk! sakittttttt! den tibe2 nurse 2 ckp, oh my God! u almost 3-4cm. dh nk bsalin ni! so truz kene thn kat wad. diorg suh tkr baju sume. ms ni ilex lg.skt yg stil ble tolerate. at 1st x nk call hubby lg.tgk2 die call dlu ha. dh agk dh. truz die mai spital.hee.nsb baik hubby smpai cpt (around 11am) cuz skt contraction makin kuat! tetibe trase nk mkn piza. tp once pain getting stronger,xnk dh piza. juz mkn bubur je so dat ade energy nk push nnt. Dr. Seri came. "Finally faeeza! today is da day!". hehe. she ruptured da membrane. gushhhh!!! mlimpah ruah air ktban. byk~~~ so i told her, i wana have a natural birth. xnk induce n pain relief (ms ni bajet cam kuat la.ye la, br 4 cm.hehe). Dr. Seri said OK. "I hope i stil can c ur smile til d end". hehe. bolehhhh.of kos bolehhh.siap peace lg ms ni ;p

tp xsgke plk, dh pecah air ktuban lg skt. mcm dh nk tcabut pinggang!! ms ni byk2 bc "lailahailla anta subhanaka innni kuntuminazzalimin". ayat ni nabi yunus bc ms die kne telan ikan paus. hbs cadar katil herot merot sbb tarik kuat sgt. tgn hubby pun dh lebam2 sbb pgg die kuat sgt. tp stil tahan lg cuz i really wana feel cemane skt bsalin ni. dh msk 6 cm, i almost collapse. sktttttttttt!!!! ya ALLAH, mcm ni rupenye skt nk bsalin! so plssss, apreciateee ur mummm!!!! sy zikir byk2 den mintak ampun ngan hubby n mama incase ade wat slh kt diorg. ms 6 cm ni,mmg dh longlai la. Dr. Seri came, "faeeza, i cant c ur smile". hubby pun dh ksian sgt dh. hubby said he wana sign for epidural. cpt2 la doc n nurse dtg cucuk kt spine utk psg epidural. spine ok!! xingt dh skt kt spine ni sbb skt contraction 2 lg kuat. tp diorg xbg full dose. so i stil can feel da pain but lesser. Dr.Seri asked me to sleep sbb nnt die tkt xde energy nk push. so sempat la tdo sejam stgh.bgn2 je jln dh bukak dkt 9cm. so nurse2 dtg utk offkn epidural so dat i can feel da real skt beranak. once die off je, astagfirullahhhhhh sktnyeeeeee!!!! mmg rs hbs la! ms ni dh rs nk meneran dh. tp diorg suh tguu smpai 10cm. half an hour later, bukak 10cm. Dr. Seri dtg sbb nk push dh ni. tp salute btl la Dr. Seri. die boleh ilex je n siap pinjam perineal cream (perineal cream ni sgt bgsss. ble bli kat mothercare) ktorg lg cuz die nk tnjk kat other patient suh g bli cream ni gak. blari2 die g bilik sblh nk tnjk cream tu. "Faeeza, jap yee." me: " Doktor, sy nk push dh ni". g2 la gelagat Dr. Seri. btape cool nye die.hehe. syabass inspektor sahab ;p !

so dh ready nk push ni. mama kne kua. so hubby yg teman kan kt dlm. ms ni skt contraction xde dh (ye la, dh fully dilated kn). rs nk meneran je. cam nk berak yg amat la!sungguh!!! cam tu la yg sy rs.hubby steadily beside me. zikir yg pjg2 xde dh. mampu sebut "ALLAH" je. so tried to push 4 da 1st time. (sy x p class breathing technique. instant class kat situ~)

Dr. Seri: Goooodd gurllll. came'on gurlll, pushhhh!! (smangeeettt Dr. Seri! my mum kat lua pn ble dgr die scream) haha.
Hubby: Pushhh honeyyyy!!
Dr. Seri: Gooooood. Rosli, u nk tgk kpale baby. (ms ni saiz 50sen. nmpk la rmbt baby tjurai sket)

hubby lagi smgat bile tgk kpale baby dh klua sket. die pun meneran same. in fact, die yg lagi smangat meneran.haha.

Hubby: dh nmpk kpale baby.Pushh honeyyy!! pushhh!! skeetttt jeee lggg!

kt labor room tu diorg psg tibi. cite kartun lak tu. so ms x rs nk meneran 2 mmg sempat la jeling2 tgk tibi.haha.

Dr. Seri: OK Faeeza, lasttt pushhh! biggg onee!! come onnn!!! pushhh!!
Hubby: honey bolehhh!! pushh syg!!! pushhh!!
Honey: Bismillahirrahmanirrahimmmm!!! (tarik nafas dlm2 den pushh! ms ni mmg xdan nafas la. rs pendek je nafas)

gushhh!! Alhamdulillah!!! kluaaa kpale baby :D !!!! den doktor suh stop push. den another small push utk kluakn bdn n kaki die. Alhamdulillahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :D! hubby cried, he hugged and he kissed my forehead :D ohhh schweetttttt :D! mine was quite a quick one. dlm stgh jam je teran baby klua. Alhamdulillah, syukur sgt2 ALLAH permudahkn:D!

Hubby: Alhamdulillah honey. baby dh kua :"D
Honey: Alhamdulillah...alhamdulillah..alhamdulillahh...
Dr. Seri: tgk ni. boy ke gurl?hehe
Honey: Boy :"D

legaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. ringan glee rs bdn. ms tgh skt td mmg xnk branak lg dh. tp once dh klua, xsbr nk no. 2 pulak ;p Maha Besar ciptaan ALLAH. Maha Sempurna perasaan yg ALLAH kurniakn. ilang sume rs skt nmpk baby! btllllll, xtpuuuuuuuu :D! den Dr. Seri pun jahit la. she said mine nye sket je jahit. perineal cream tu really helps :D Alhamdulillah :D ms ni skt gak. tp dh xkesah sgt dh. lega baby slmt sume :D

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g2 la kisah mcm mn Adam klua tgk dunia. suchhhh a beatiful moment :D incomparable!! bahagiaaa sgt2 dpt tgk Adam sihat n slmt sume :D

20 Jan 2010, our son was born :D
3.52 kg :D 50cm :D 7.09pm :D Prince Court Medical Centre :D

more posts after this. this is only da beginning :D